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Showing posts with label wagie ride for Tuesday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wagie ride for Tuesday. Show all posts

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Celebrating Tuesday - Part One

First of all, it's not too late to jump in on this virtual parade of "wagie rides" that we got going on over here in memory of Tuesday Whitt.  Yesterday, Tuesday's family had their own celebration in Parker, Colorado and all of us who could not be there physically were with them in spirit.  Yes, in spirit.

The pictures that are rolling in are awesome and are bringing all kinds of tears to my eyes.  I'm planning on compiling them all and posting one awesome video montage later in the week.  You will not want to miss the end result of this virtual parade.  I promise it to be good for the soul. 

Here's that mind-bending Mr. Linky who will be partying here until Monday night so come on back and link up anytime for any kind of celebration you had in memory of Tuesday whenever it all happened.  Or even if it has not happened yet.


You see, our wagie ride is a work in progress.  Like most things in my home.  And it's a philosophy of living that I'm getting more and more accustomed to and I'm actually embracing.... my life is a work in progress.  With no perfection in sight. With no perfectly clean house, perfectly cooked meal, perfectly finished to-do list, perfectly behaved children.  But it's mine.  All mine. And I'm learning to love every single second of it.  In all of its wondrous imperfection.

Early Saturday morning, around 3:30 am to be exact, El Destructo woke with a cry that sounded a little, well, unhappy.  As I tried to rock him back to sleep, I soon realized what the problem was.  That is, I realized it once he barfed all over me and his smelly vomit dripped down my tank top into my cleavage.  Oh joy.  Right? 

He actually had thrown up the afternoon prior but I thought it was just drinking too much juice and a car ride that did the trick.  But this 3:30 am episode that landed him in the bath and me in the shower told me otherwise.

Saturday morning he was quite cranky so my "wagie ride" plan was put on hold. But when he eventually went to sleep around noon the girls and I launched into other fun to celebrate Tuesday.  We do what we do when we celebrate around here.  We turn the tunes on and we bake cookies.  Chocolate chip cookies to be exact. 



As we mixed the dough in the one appliance I have real feelings of love for, my Kitchen Aid mixer, this was the sky out of our kitchen window.  


As the cookies baked, the girls made drawings for Tuesday in preparation for the "parade."  They are so into this parade idea.



We did our share of licking the bowl and eating large chunks of cookie dough and then also devoured half a plate of freshly baked delights.  Oh, what a perfect Saturday afternoon lunch.


When El Destructo woke THREE AND A HALF HOURS later, he was a changed lil' dude.  He was better.  Or enough to carry on with the next part of the wagie ride preparations.

You see, our wagon was stolen a few months ago while sitting in front of our home.  In my neighborhood we ALWAYS leave stuff out and this is the second thing that has been stolen in the last six months.  Weird.  So we needed to get another wagon and this wagie ride was the perfect excuse to do it.

So in the late afternoon I loaded up the kids (my dude was hanging with some friends in Newport Beach for the day) and off to Toys R Us we ventured in search of a new wagon.

It's been raining on and off for a few days here in LA so in between the puffy white clouds and blue skies, big gray rain clouds have floated in off the ocean dropping plenty of water to clean our city streets.  As we drove, blue skies hovered to the west while the gray clouds that recently passed hung out in the east.  

And then I saw something I rarely see in LA and something my girls pointed out they had never seen before in their young lives....

....a real live rainbow.


Yes, there are rainbows...even in LA.  

They insisted I stop and take photos even though I only had my iPhone with me. The squeals of delight as they described the colors and shouted "It's following us mama!" made my heart do a few backflips.  

And coupled with knowing that on this day people all over the country and as far as New Zealand were remembering Tuesday and the Whitt family made the significance of this rainbow, well...nothing short of miraculous

Our wagie ride.

To be continued...

  

Monday, February 2, 2009

T.T. - A "Wagie Ride" for Tuesday

You know when you get that feeling of helplessness? That feeling that you wish you could do something to right a wrong, to heal a hurt, to solve a problem but you really have no role in the matter? Well that's how I'm feeling.

Like many of you out here in the blogosphere, my heart is breaking. We have all come across stories that shake us to our core and that is what has happened to me with the latest news of a tiny soul leaving the planet much much too soon.

If you're familiar with Tuesday Whitt's story, well you know. If you are not familiar, you can click here and browse through a blog that is written by Tuesday's mama, Jessica Kate, a strong, faithful woman whose courage and love and personality simply jump off the page every time I read her words.

Every day last week held such a different vibe.  The highs and lows and hopes and fears of caring for a child with cancer were so evident with each and every post. When I saw that Tuesday had passed away on Friday, well...there were no words. As a woman and a mama, my heart could not shake the images of this darling Tuesday with her sweet magnetic smile.  My thoughts drifted to how any parent could survive the death of a child - but somehow they do. Somehow.

I read on Tuesday's blog that her family is holding a celebration of her life this Saturday and they are inviting family and friends to meet at their home to walk together in a little parade to the memorial celebration held at a local equestrian center.  The family is encouraging everyone to come on bikes and in wagons because "wagie rides" were one of Tuesday's favorite things to do.  

I believe in this community so I thought how can we gather in our virtual world to show our support for this incredible family?  How can we let Tuesday's family know that we are with them in spirit?

A little conversation developed between me and my bloggy friend Em at Life, Liberty and the Pursuit and we have devised a plan:

We would like to hold a virtual parade on Saturday, February 7th, for Tuesday. We want each and every one of you to stop what you're doing on Saturday and spend a little time with your kids on a bike ride or a wagon ride or a sled ride or a skateboarding cruise or a stroll in the park and to photograph it.  

Then on Monday, February 9th, we are hoping that you will post your photograph(s) from your own little parade and come back here or over to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit to drop your name in a great big Mr. Linky.  All in one place where we can see the power of this community coming together in a show of solidarity and support for one of our own.  

I also have high hopes of grabbing the photos and putting them in one master slideshow for the Whitt Family but let's take it one step at a time.

We can't be with the family physically but we can be with them in spirit.  Reminding them they are not alone.  That somehow, someway we are all in this together on the journey. Hopefully our prayers and our photographs will lift their spirits if even for a moment.  

What can you do now?  First step is to grab this button and spread the word.



(Thanks to Shauna and Bianca for pulling through last minute!)

Post it on your blog, tell your readers about the plan and let's get this parade going big and strong.  I'll have the button up all week directing people to this post and hopefully we can all get outdoors, breathe some fresh air, laugh with our kids, and wrap our arms around the Whitt family as they celebrate the life of their precious little girl, Tuesday.

Questions? Email me please!  leemwob AT gmail DOT com  

Blogkind rules.  All there is to it. 

P.S.  And all you true blue moms without blogs out there?  Well, you're in on it too. If you want to be.  All you have to do is email me your parade photos and they will be posted here on MWOB along with mine.  I got you all into this scene so why not jump in a little further? 

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